About Energy and Vibration
We know today that we are all energy units! Albeit of different levels but energy units we are including buildings, furniture, food, and anything else that you see around you. In solid units such as we are, energy is held together to create matter, don't ask me to go into the physics know-how, just accept it for what it is. Tons of books out there will tell you about this. I remember over 15 years ago when I was getting ready to leave New York I decided to sell all my heavy material belongings. One of my friends, director of an astrology school, immediately bought my large heavy wood solid antique bookcase (without the books) and was happy to declare with a big smile 'Now I will have your energy with me for at least a year!' hmmmm, I thought at the time, that's interesting. It came as a surprise to me that he liked my energy that much. He explained that he liked my positive optimistic effervescent life loving nature. I know what he meant because as I go through the life school of hard knocks, I bounce back each time stronger than ever before.
Dark Wood Bookshelf
But I'm straying away from what I really want to talk about here, which is energy. Energy equals vibration. We know two things for sure, one that we are not all blessed with the same amount of energy or vibration and two that we have different qualities of energy or vibration. What is also widely known today is that this quality depends very much on our own thoughts and our inner mental and feeling world. If, for example, we lack self esteem, feel inadequate and short changed by life itself, we tend to withdraw inwards, wallow in self pity and develop a negative inner dialogue. This negative inner dialogue then controls our life as it manifests on the material level with negative results. So no matter how much we seek happiness or aim for success in anything, it remains out of reach leaving us frustrated and wondering why, forgetting that it is our inner world that ultimately leads us towards or away from our goals and dreams.
Often as we work hard towards achieving a certain goal, whatever that maybe, and we seem to be doing all the right things that are required on the outer level, the material level, but the goal still eludes us and we sit there annoyed and distressed wondering what went wrong. We complain, sink into a depression and blame others and circumstances totally ignoring and forgetting about our inner world, the real world that we live in, i.e. our intimate thoughts, our inner dialogue, our intentions, our real secret desires all of which is the fuel.
Truth of the matter is that everything that is visible in the physical world, first has to be completed on the etheric level, thought level, mental level before it can materialize in the physical world that we live in. Artists, architects, cooks, gardeners, writers and all creative people on any level know about this prodedure. Here's a simple example: you cannot have a clear quality photograph without having the perfect negative first, so the negative for our physical goal, the blueprint, has to be complete first on the mental plane in our thought world. The more detailed, clear and perfect that is, the better and the stronger chance it will have to manifest in the physical world. Important is that you know what YOU really want and not what others want for you or what you think you should want. For this you need to develop your imagination!
No matter how much of a show you put on of being positive to impress others or to fool yourself, if you have an inner negative dialogue, a dissatisfied unhappy insecure inner self, the outer will remain what it is - a fake. You see, energy is vibration, and this negative vibration of your thoughts and feelings emanates from your every pore, whether you like it or not. It is a low vibration level. Your very aura that surrounds you will be colored with this negativity, visible to the few in dark colors, and definitely, felt by almost everyone you come in contact with because you will have a heavy suffocating energy around you. According to the universal Law of Attraction, this negative energy will attract only its like to you, namely more negativity and will repel everyone and everything else, away from you. This law of attraction works as guaranteed as the law of gravity works.
I am very aware and support teachings of repeating affirmations and pretending 'you're happy when you're blue' methods until it has sunk into your subconscious. This is a process of learning which you will need to go through if you are not blessed, as the few fortunate who are, with an in born positive attitude and a love for life. But do not despair, all is not lost, you can change it. It is your life and you are the master of your life after all. You have been given the gift of free choice. So whenever you notice your mischievous 'monkey' mind wondering off to negative thoughts, reminding you of all the 'lacks' and 'not possibles', force yourself to think of positive thoughts instead. Focus on all the good points you have in your life and be grateful for those. Focus and concentration is a major key. Focus on that what you want and not on what you don't want, live healthy, eat healthy, exercise, raise your vibration level, do whatever pleases you, be that meditation, walking, hiking, reading, movies, books, music, attend workshops, and if you can't do it on your own, if you can't discipline yourself then get a coach to help and guide you, but do it all with joy. Joy is another key. Each of these steps is a step nearer to your desired goal. You need to master this first, with little achievable goals before you embark on larger ones. So you might be faking it to begin with but in time you will be a natural and that's when you can expand your horizon to achieve your bigger goals.
Energetic dynamic people who have a high energy vibration level are considered sexy and attractive and people are drawn to them like bees to honey. Usually such people have a love for life itself and they attract people, money, success effortlessly. Having a low energy vibration of unhappiness and lack, will attract nothing but unhappiness and lack of love and lack of money to you. So work on raising your vibration level. How you do that is easy too. Motion is the answer, move, be active, be energetic, run, dance, sing, get your heart racing, sing loud, stomp your feet, get excited, get enthusiastic, be passionate, be interested in the good stuff that goes on around you. In other words WAKE UP!
Remember always, if you expect to get the best, you will get the best, if you expect to lose then you will surely lose. It is YOUR decision. That is how the law works.
Margo Kirtikar PhD. Your personal Coach.